The word impossible itself says "I M POSSIBLE". It is only some kind of lack in our efforts that leads to failure.

Success is determined by many factors such as confidence level, motivation, attitude, etc. and all these factors sum up to personality.

First let us understand what is success.

Success? What is it? What is the way to it? What are the rewards?

Through hard work and dedication, one can achieve the extraordinary.

Success begins first with the instincts to pursue logical thinking. Then, the finest way to succeed is to begin with a rational plan for realizing our hopes and expectations. The process is a journey if not an adventure with surprises on every front. It begins with the first step, however small even if our goals should change along the way. At least, one should take the step and become part of history.

To be successful, to do something that will help others, and to keep a sound mind in the process, we must be motivated to succeed regardless of the consequences. There must be willingness to work hard when required.

If we have the desire and determination to make a difference, then this is the quality needed for success.

Remember: Successful people

• are not troubled by insecurities.
• are convinced of their own worth and self-realization.
• know that responsibility is the key to becoming autonomous.
• expose themselves to risk.
• are curious.
• ask questions.
• listen to other people's problems.
• deliver what they promise.
• are ready to seize the opportunity.
• are ready to gamble on their hunch.
• are able to concentrate on what is important.
• have a passion for winning.

"He who is waiting for something to turn up might start with his own shirt sleeves."

This is how SUCCESS can be defined.

"A single flower does not make a garland."
No one is independent in life. One depends on others right from birth till death. Every person-no matter how big or small - is a stepping stone to our success

"Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration"
It is a universal law that we cannot get something for nothing. Efforts is the price one has to pay to succeed in life.

"If you continue to do what you have been doing, you will continue to get only that you have been getting."
All of us are gifted with a lot of creative potential. But it lies deep. Just as the sculptor has to chip away some stone with his chisel to release the statue hidden in a block of stone, we have to chip away some of our conventional thinking to release our creative potential.

"The man who wins is the man who thinks he can"
A talented man without confidence is like a powerful car without brakes. Confidence is a psychological steroid that boosts our power.

"Poets are born; Orators are made,"
Public Speaking is the launch pad to effective speech. It gives a lot of courage and confidence and earns respect and admiration from the society.

"It is a small seed that grows into a huge tree."
Once the mind is seeded with a goal, it soars to its magnificent heights to achieve the goal.

"If you don't use it, you will soon lose it"
Memory is an index to measure the capacity utilisation of our brain. The secret of sharp memory lies in systematic storage that facilitates instant retrieval. Every one of us can have a sharp memory irrespective of age, education and intelligence.

Defined above are some of the factors that sum up to our personality. Confidence is one of them. Confidence is a key to survive in this world. It is the only key tool to win the rat race in every walk of life. Confidence in ones own capabilities pooled with honest efforts help one to attain extraordinary heights. But many times we see that this basic element of confidence is missing in us. As a result of lack of confidence we perform well below our competence. Be it in a public speech, proposing your beloved, vivas in your college or in an interview or say even on the eve before our exams. This can be due to fear of being rejected or any other reason.

Instead of living in the unending moments of fear and thoughtless analysis it is better if we project ourselves with the skills we have with the luster of confidence. With confidence we can reveal the finer points of our personality in such a way that the places where we do lack are never highlighted.

Confidence should glow in us only till the point where our personality is boosted. Above this it leads to over-confidence that is harmful.

Over confidence results in unsatisfied performance levels as the seed of ego grows into a plant into our mind. We then imagine and make big talks just to maintain our ego. So guys don't let the seed of ego to sprout in your mind, as this seed should be used only for you to live up to your expectations.

Confidence is all about being cool, calm and composed.

Yet another factor is motivation. Let us see how motivation affects our personality.

One of the greatest virtues of human beings is their ability to think and act accordingly. The emergence of the techno savvy man from the tree swinging ape has really been a long journey. This evolution has taken countless centuries. Curiosity and ambition to come out with the best have been the pillars for man's mission for development.

Here are some keys for self-motivation.

• The only thing stopping you is yourself.
• There is no guarantee that tomorrow will come. So do it today.
• Intentions don't count, but action's do.
• Success is the greatest motivator.
• Your goals must be clear, but the guidelines must be flexible.

Another key factor in our success is our communication skills.

Communication in any form is used for exchange of information. The links called words make communication work.

Selection and thought prior to communication is very important.

Sometimes we say things which we shouldn't have or we carelessly utter unwanted words. By using unwanted words or speaking more than necessary, we not only hurt someone, but we also add a spot of dust to our social image. 

So we need to watch before we speak because the actions of the listener may be louder than our words!

Sometimes we feel that we are getting distracted from our aim. This not only brings depression but also results in decrease in efficiency.

No matter how excited we are about our business, with so many distractions and things that may be going on in our life, we can easily find ourselves losing focus on our goals and what we want to accomplish.

Here are 5 things that help to stay focused on our goals.

Communication in any form is used for exchange of information. The links called words make communication work.

Selection and thought prior to communication is very important.

Sometimes we say things which we shouldn't have or we carelessly utter unwanted words. By using unwanted words or speaking more than necessary, we not only hurt someone, but we also add a spot of dust to our social image. 

So we need to watch before we speak because the actions of the listener may be louder than our words!

Sometimes we feel that we are getting distracted from our aim. This not only brings depression but also results in decrease in efficiency.

No matter how excited we are about our business, with so many distractions and things that may be going on in our life, we can easily find ourselves losing focus on our goals and what we want to accomplish.

Here are 5 things that help to stay focused on our goals.

• FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED
• ORGANIZE TO MAKE THINGS EASY AND SIMPLE
• CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT THINGS
• UNDERSTAND GOALS WILL TAKE TIME TO REACH
• STUDY AND READ ARTICLES ON MOTIVATION

Thus, attitude is the combination of all positive factors. If our attitude is positive, nothing can stop us from succeeding !!! ALL THE BEST !!

The author is a member of the Institute. The views expressed herein are his personal views and do no necessarily represent the views of the Regional Council